
Don't try to get in early
This is pretty basic and applies to garage sales as well. Again, you can certainly get your number or get in line as early as you like - but if a sale is advertised to start at 9 am, don't go banging on the door at 8:30 am. Don't show up the night before trying to get a sneak peek (drive bys are one thing, just don't stop!)
Don't rush or grab
I'll be honest, i've NEVER seen people grabbing things out of other people's hands. EVERYBODY at any sale I've been to in Jacksonville has been very, very nice. But it is easy to get excited over something and to accidentally mow down a lil' old lady in your pursuit of the holy grail across the room. Be cool, you'll get there.
Do consider your surroundings
I've been in some large and luxurious houses on the river, and I've been in some houses that I thought might fall down and take me with 'em. Companies will also take unsold inventory from previous sales and add it to the current sale - so these houses are often full, full full! Leave the big purses, the high heels, and the kids at home. You and everybody else will be more comfortable - and much safer - because of it!
Do look everywhere...
Some of my most favorite and most treasured finds have been in places I've least expected them. Just recently i found a box chock full of handmade clay flowers in all sorts of shapes, size and colors. They were on the bottom shelf of a bookcase in a dark corner under two other boxes of unrelated items. Dig, girl - you'll be glad you did! Don't forget to look up, too - wonderful things can be lurking on top of kitchen cabinets, top shelves of closets, and even on the walls.
But don't look there!
Some rooms or areas will be taped off - often times bathrooms or rooms that have been cleared out or designated as reserve spaces. I've heard unbelievable stories of people barging in places they shouldn't. Resist the urge, Nancy Drew.
Don't wreck the linens
Actually, this goes for any items that are piled up, and is a pet peeve of mine in real stores, too. Somebody has to come along and straighten out that mess you've made, you know. You can look without scattering everything around to the four winds. Also, don't break apart items that have been packaged together - that's a no-no!
Do be respectful when you park
As nice as I've seen people be inside the house, I've witnessed some real boneheaded moves when it comes to parking at estate sales. Yes, it can be a tight fit in some of the older neighborhoods. Yes, there can be a ton of people, and you may have to "park creatively." But please respect the neighbors! Don't tear up their yards or block in their cars. Don't double park or clog up cul-de-sacs. Drive slowly - people may be carrying large, heavy items and may not see you coming. Be flexible - save the road rage for JTB.